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How People are Destroying The Marital Homes Of One Another
« on: January 26, 2018, 10:14:44 AM »
People Unknowingly Destroying The Marital Homes Of One Another

In every marriage, the very first bond that necessitates the affection is the LOVE the couple had for each other.

Problem always arises if the TRUST of the LOVE is no more there. Research shows that many marital relationships begin to collapse when the couple begins NOT to see values for every of their action towards each other.

It becomes worse when some Muslims unknowingly facilitate these marital problems.

It is WRONG for a man or a brother to be extremely caring to another man's wife. The woman may understand your spirit of brotherhood in Islam. But a time would come that she would begin to think you are more better than her husband. And she would begin to devalue every bit of care or action from her husband. This makes their marriage fade away gradually. Brothers must STOP engaging in excessive chat with married women and also sounding sweet to them all the time in the spirit of "halal caring", and hiding under the fact that the woman is older than them after all. If you want a woman to care for , go and get married  to your own wife and stop doing "good boy" to other people's women. Yes, they would say you are a good and caring young man, but then, you would  be recorded as the igniter of divorce in disguise in a home that has been peaceful.




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How People are Destroying The Marital Homes Of One Another
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« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2018, 10:15:13 AM »
Yes, sisters your turn. It starts with you always seeking advice from a married man, must you seek advice from a married man all your life? Are all the married women dead that you can't walk up to them for advice? You begin by asking him that you needed someone to motivate you, then you ask how was his work? What food did he eat, and hope he is not too tired. You pretend under the  excuse of being his "Islamic Daughter" or a " Islamic younger sister". You even sound ridiculous asking him to extend your regards to his wife. Are you out of your tiny senses? You may not have the intention of being a mathna. But shaytan would utilize your devilish care in creating doubt in the minds of the man that you are more better and that his wife is not caring enough. Then he begins to see every action from his wife unworthy.

These are happenings in our communities, there are lots of marriages in which the hearts of the couples are outside their marital homes. Because some outsiders are PRETENDING to be better. Only if they know it is just a pretense that Shaytan is beautifying.

And shame on married men and women taking the care they should give to their partner to another married man or another married woman.

Please be careful. Leave other people's husbands and wives alone. Nobody needs your devilish care. Go and marry  and care for your partner and find a better life for yourself. The couples can care for each other. That was one of the reasons for their marriage.

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