NaijaSky

EVILS OF LATE MARRIAGE FOR WOMEN

Medically, a lady is mature as soon as
menstruation starts. Most women start menstruation by the age of
11,12,13, 14 up to 18years. If any lady fails to
menstruate by the age of 18, that's abnormality.
It is a disease; We should take note. But 11 to 18years is still acceptable...
Now, what we mean by menstruation is that every month, every lady will release an egg from the "ovary". An ovary is a house of eggs in a woman; the eggs that become baby in the future & the number of eggs in the ovary is limited; it cannot be increased. So every month when a lady starts to menstruate, an egg is released. Once a lady/woman releases an egg, it is menstruation. And once that egg waits for like 72hours in any woman's reproductive system and there is no
sperm to fertilise it, it comes along with menstrual blood; so it is wasted, but that is minus one from the counts in the ovary. So if you now start counting it, that means a lady loses eggs from the age of 11 like
that... 12eggs in a year, another year another loss, another 12eggs and so on. The pattern of eggs in a woman are in three phases, just like any fruit passes through 3 phases: 1st phase -
Unripe phase, not good to eat. 2nd phase - Ripe phase very good to eat, best time to eat. 3rd phase - bad phase. This is similar to the phases of eggs that will be released in any woman as she develops. We have some eggs that will be released in a woman in the first phase. It is the time when a woman starts to menstruate up to
18years, so from 11 to 18years is the first phase of eggs.These are the eggs that can be liken to unripe eggs like unripe fruit. Once a woman reaches age of 18, this is second phase of eggs. That second phase is between 18
and 24years. These are the best form of eggs
that a woman releases in her life. They are best in quality; they are best in fertility potential, best in everything you can be think of. Those are the best eggs. They are such that when any sperms hit them they become fertilised and develop baby immediately. They don't fail because they are very good. So the third phase is the last stage at age 24 and above.This is when the bad eggs will be coming up. So it is a consensus that if any woman wants to be very fertile in
her life, the best time to start that fertility period
and
doesn't want to stress herself go around before
she
conceives is between the ages of 18 and 24. So
marriage in that age range is acceptable
worldwide.
Dear sisters of 24years upward are facing risk of
infertility. I am not saying that every lady of age
24 will
neccessarily face risk of infertility but majority of
infertility cases is common among those who are
over
25years. You would rarely find someone who
marries
within 18 and 24years facing infertility problem
except
if she has done abortions, uses contraceptives or
something similar. But ordinarily & naturally, they
are
not likely to suffer infertility. So that is the
position of
age.


Linkback: http://naijasky.com/love-relationship-and-marriage/1718/evils-of-late-marriage-for-women/35460/

on time and not only that, the problem of breast
cancer
is another reason why late marriage is very
dangerous. I
pray ALLAH will not inflict anyone of us with
breast
cancer. It is a very deadly disease; it doesn't
have cure
because it has four stages: stages 1,2,3 & 4. As
it is
usually said medically, stage one and two are
curable
and the cure for it is that it will be removed. The
breast
is not a matter of drug; they will remove the
breast but
stage 3 and 4 even if the breast is removed
doesn't
make any difference. So many women have the
tendency because breast cancer is hereditary;
there are
some chromosomes in the body from genetic
materials
within the system that can make somebody
prone to
breast cancer in the future.
So early marriage has been found to be a very
potent
preventive measure against breast cancer. For
the
benefit of doubt, this can be confirmed from any
medical doctor or search the internet. What I am
saying
is authentic as much as possible. Today, it is
agreed in
the medical world that early marriage is a
potential
preventive measure against breast cancer and
there are
many wonderful explanations to it.
*POTENTIAL PREVENTIVE MEASURES AGAINST
BREAST
CANCER*
1- There is an hormone called oestrogen in the
reproductive system of a woman. This hormone
is
responsible for menstruation. if it attacks the
breast of
any woman that has the tendency to develop
breast
cancer, the cancer starts to grow. It is the
hormone
that stimulates the growth of that cancer but if
she
doesn't has the tendency, the hormone will not
do
anything to her breast which nobody knows
except
ALLAH. Nobody knows if she has the tendency or
not..
The only technology now in use is called
mammography breast screening. The breast is
examined if cancer is likely to grow in it. But it
cannot
be see if there is tendency for its development in
a
woman. So if anybody has the tendency of
breast
cancer, it is the hormone that stimulates it. As it
attacks
the breast it starts to grow breast cancer.
We now sat down that the only way this breast
cancer
can be prevented from growing is to create a
situation
for that woman where she has no oestrogen in
her
system.
But there is no injection to suppress that
oestrogen so
we must find a natural way of making her free of
oestrogen. The analysis now is that since
oestrogen is
responsible for menstruation, if there is no
menstruation there can no be oestrogen.
So, what are the natural ways by which a woman
may
not menstruate? The first one is pregnancy. If a
woman
is pregnant for nine months, she will not
menstruate. If
any woman says she's pregnant and at the same
time
menstruating, then that is not possible but to a
layman.
In the medical field, it is not possible because
they
work with science; they read things with science
but if it
happens that a woman is pregnant and at the
same
time menstruate, that means the pregnancy is
trying to
get aborted. So it gets threatened this month &
stops
next month. When this occurs, people count it as
menstruation but it is never a menstruation now
for
9months. During pregnancy the oestrogen will
not
occur in a woman; that is the first natural
measure. For
nine months the woman will be free of
oestrogen.
Secondly, another natural way that a woman will
be
free of oestrogen is breastfeeding particularly if
she
breastfeeds during the night. There are so many
cases
where a woman breastfeed for 1 and a half year
above
and was not menstruating at all. It depends on
how
serious the woman breastfeeds. If she's very
aggressive
in breastfeeding for 2years, she may not
menstruate.
That means for that two years, the woman will
be free
of oestrogen.
This is the formula: Let her get married as early
as
possible - 18 to lately 24years - that kind of lady
will be
very fertile. She is likely to get pregnant at that
particularly period. Let's assume she got
pregnant at
that particularly period for nine months; she will
be
free of oestrogen after nine months immediately
she
delivers, she start breastfeeding let's say for two
years,
she will be also free of oestrogen so, that is
3years. She
will be free of oestrogen. Before another 3years
she got
another pregnant, is that not a formula? Now
another
pregnant for 9 months, she is free of oestrogen.
Another 2years for breastfeeding she is free of
oestrogen. Before another 2years she got
another
pregnant and she is not a type of lady that says
"four
children is enough for my family". She believes in
the
ideology of islam that says Muslims should have
many children as our Prophet (may peace and
blessings of
ALLAH be upon him) advised: married to women that you will love and that will produce many
children".
They will be very prolific in terms of fertilization.
If a women believes in that, it means every three years she
is having children and she continue like that may
be 6,
7 or 8 children before the completion of that 8
children, she will have approached menopause.
After
menopause, no more oestrogen. Which religion
preaches the best formula? The only religion that
preaches early marriage is islam. Which religion
preaches breastfeeding for 2years? Isn't it islam?
Which religion preaches having many children? Of course it is only Islam. Allahu Akbar! So, let's put Islam first in whatever we do before any other thing. It is
unfortunate that most of our parents and ladies/ women follow the western culture. May Allah be with us and guide us rightly.