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Your co-workers don't need to know these 10 things about you
« on: November 19, 2016, 07:56:35 AM »
Work is a social place, but employers have been very slow to recognize it. We pretend that people go to work just to do their jobs, but for many people thatís not true. We get more out of our work than just a paycheck, when the environment is healthy.

We get social interaction that we need, and we get to build up other people and they build  us up, too.

When the energy is good in your workplace, your co-workers can be like friends. However, the fuzzy line between work-friendship and regular friendship can also cause you problems.



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« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2016, 07:57:35 AM »
When youíre dealing with tough situations at home, your workmates are the obvious people to tell. Sometimes they can give you great advice on what to do. At the same time, itís still a job. Itís not a great idea to tell your co-workers a lot about your personal life, because there is a risk involved.

Fear and trust move in waves. A carefree, casual workplace today can become fraught and stressful quickly, and thatís when you will regret having told your co-workers too many personal details about your life.

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« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2016, 08:01:21 AM »
Sadly, when people get fearful they can turn on you, give up your secrets and generally hurt you. Maybe it would be better for you to find a trusted friend who isnít also a co-worker and spill your guts to that person when you need advice!

Here are ten things your co-workers donít need to know about you:

1. Your relationship difficulties

2. Your detailed financial state ó or financial problems

3. Your legal woes

4. Your health situation, except as it applies to work

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5. Your family drama

6. Your feelings about your company or your boss

7. Your plans to leave the job

8. Your political aspirations inside your company

9. Your hesitations and doubts about yourself

10. Your struggles (with substance abuse, gambling, etc.)
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« Reply #4 on: November 19, 2016, 08:04:17 AM »
I look forward to the day when every workplace is also a community built on trust, but we are not there yet. When you lean on trust that does not exist or that is too ephemeral to rest on, you can live to regret it. There is too much fear in most workplaces to make very personal conversations with your colleagues a good idea.

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« Reply #5 on: November 19, 2016, 08:06:04 AM »
Think of a friend whose opinion your value and whom you havenít seen in a while. Reach out to that friend and invite them to meet you for a drink or lunch or coffee. We all need support networks, but our workmates may not be the best nominees for that role, as good-hearted as they may be.

Use your judgment when inviting your professional contacts into the vault where secrets are shared. You will sleep more easily when you do!

Liz Ryan is CEO/founder of Human Workplace and author of Reinvention Roadmap.

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