Marriage Tips

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xx A recommended therapy for all couples and singles
March 16, 2018, 06:44:56 AM by Isaac Adeniran

He was having his evening beverage

That's when she joined him.

"Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down.

"I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her.

" Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said.

"I am a married man" he told her.

"Fight all you want, but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him.

"You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off.

"Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage, then lifting up her skirt, just a bit.

"If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a grown man, you think all that consumes my mind is sex? And for your information, my wife is actually great in bed" he told her.

"How will you know unless you do me. Try me tonight. Let's drive in your black car to a romantic hotel, I promise you a night you will never forget" she told him.

"You know what you are? You are lazy? A lazy woman" he told her, then took a sip of his beverage.

"How dare you call me lazy?! I am a high flying educated woman. Any man would give anything to have me" she said.

"Fair enough. But would you give anything to make a man?" He asked.

"What do you mean?" She questioned.

"You look at me and find me attractive. Yet you disrespect the woman behind who I am, you want me to cheat on my wife, the woman behind my attractiveness" said he.

xx Why you should take risk to protect your spouse
February 26, 2018, 07:04:34 AM by Isaac Adeniran

He came back from a meeting that fateful day and informed his wife that the next meeting of Good Brothers London branch will be in their house, as it was now his turn to host them. He added that the people have demanded to eat special Ofe Onugbu for entertainment.

On the day of the meeting, she went to Nigerian market to purchase the items to make the Onugbu Soup for the guest who are well respected personalities, highly placed individuals with profound integrity.

She entered the kitchen and started making the food, while the husband went out to get other important items for the meeting. Lo and behold, the people have started arriving.

 Just as they have settled down and waiting for entertainment, the wife whispered to the husband who just arrived and was saluting the people's with great excitements with handshake in turns telling them that the food was ready........

Wooow!! He was so excited the more... As the custom demands that food should be presented before everything thing.

The husband then accompanied her to the kitchen, decided to taste the soup before hand.

It happened that this woman just got the Onugbu (bitter leaf) straight from the market without knowing that onugbu must be boiled and squeezed out part of the bitterness very well before putting into the soup. She just sliced them like that and put them directly into the soup. The husband became dumbfounded, not knowing what to do!!

Suddenly, a thought crept to his mind, though he didn't disclose nor say anything to the wife who was believing the cooked soup to be the best, and to her, that's indeed it going to be *"a delicious bitter leaf".*

He said, honey, please could you take up the fufu pot to the dining for the visitors while I assist you to carry the soup pot?

She accepted.

Just as they were approaching the center table, *he intentionally double crossed his legs, and fell down fatally, and the whole soup poured out and wasted to the ground.* The people started shouting:  sorry, sorry sorry oh my God, oh my God. Hope you're OK, no injury, etc,  this delicious soup wasted. Oh nooh. Sorry sir.. And helping him to stand up... Eventually, the people ended up taking only the drinks alone and left with joy and showing pity for the man.

However, the wife was very angry shouting at him, you are just a devil, who came to ruin my happiness, look how honoured I could have been before this people, you just wasted my soup. This wicked man.

The man didn't answer nor respond anything to her wife. But was very happy that the wife integrity and respect was wittily, handsomely and smartly rescued. The woman continued to Abuse the husband with razor blade mouth.

Later in the night while they have slept and woke up, the husband quietly said to the wife, *darling, do you really know what happened yesterday, I intentionally poured out that Soup to protect your integrity. The soup could have brought a big Shame to them. And told her the soup was very bitter and no one could have eaten such a bitter Soup. Probably you forgot to wash out the bitter leaf properly before putting it into the soup

There she fell down and started crying and begging the husband for forgiveness... And, the Love for the husband increased the more.


1. Take all possible risk to protect your spouse, you're his or her shield.

2. Women, not all your men action is against your happiness.

3. Men, don't talk back at your angry Wife, her ears are always at her back whenever she is so provoked.

4. Wise men talk quietly and reply to issues when the situation is calm.

May God bless our home!
xx If you marry the right person, you experience this
January 26, 2018, 02:41:56 AM by Isaac Adeniran
If you marry the right person, everyday is Valentine's Day.

Marry the wrong person, everyday is Martyrs Day.
Marry a lazy person, everyday is Labour Day.
Marry a rich person everyday is New Year's Day

Marry an immature person, everyday would seem like Children's Day.

Marry a cheater or liar, everyday will become April Fool's Day.

And if you don't get married, everyday is Independance Day!

Marriage is the only school where you get the Certificate before you start.

It's also a school where you will never graduate.

It's a school without a break or a free period.

It's a school where no one is allowed to drop out.

It's a school you will have to attend every day of your life.

It's a school where there is no sick leave or holidays.

It's a school founded by God:

1.On the foundation of love.

2.The walls are made out of trust.

3.The door made out of acceptance.

4.The windows made out of understanding

5.The furniture made out of blessings

6.The roof made out of faith.

Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal.

God is the only Principal.

Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside.

Keep in mind that, this school is the safest place to be.

Never go to sleep before completing your
assignments for the day.

Never forget the C-word...Communicate.

Communicate with your classmate and with the Principal.

If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate,

Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,

God is not finished with him/her yet.

So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

Do not forget to study the Holy Book (the main textbook of this school).

Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way.

Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.

When tempted to quit find courage and continue.

Some tests and exams may be tough but remember,

the Principal knows how much you can bear and yet

it's a school better than any other.

It's one of the best schools on earth;

joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day.

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject.

After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it.

To be loved is a good thing, but to love is the greatest privilege of them all.

Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse.
More grace from God.

Send this to all your married friends to encourage them,  and to your unmarried friends to counsel and educate them.
January 16, 2018, 06:37:58 AM by Isaac Adeniran

Be patient while you read this…
If you are a young and ambitious dude still
struggling to get to the top,
this write-up will save you the stress and pains
of the so-called love we
have been deceived about for long!
If you still think that there’s what is called ‘true
love’ or ‘love without
money or resources’, then you must be living in
a fool’s paradise!!!
(Quote me if you like!)
The truth of the matter is that what people in the
past enjoyed as ‘true
love’ no longer exist. Then it was possible for a
man and a woman to fall
in love based on personal qualities or characters
without materialism
attached to it! Those were the good old days!
Our society has changed and
any one who still lives in the past is not better
than the village !!!
I have heard people saying often times that love
or relationship is not all
about money! To me, that’s the highest level of
trash and rubbish! If you
are a young man with ambition, still striving and
toiling to make it, you
better forget about love and concentrate full-
time…I mean 100% on your
dreams and life.
It is so frustrating to see some struggling dudes
killing themselves over love
issues! What a life! Why spend the meagre salary
you earn after working
for 30 days like a donkey on a girl? She tells you
she needs a phone, you
struggle to buy it! She says she needs money for
hair, you struggle to give
her! She tells you she needs to get a nice bag or
pair of shoes she saw at
a boutique, you struggle to give her! Be rest
assured that you will
continue to struggle endlessly in your life if you
don’t desist from such
shameful and wasteful act! If you want to know
the extent to which
materialism has eaten into this so-called love,
watch even the younger girls
of today! Even those that are below 21 or 22 will
quickly run away from
you if you can’t be giving her upkeep money,
money for hair and phone,
If you don’t live comfortably well, sorry, you are
on your own!!! Except
for those village girls that are not exposed…but
seriously, not in the cities
of Nigeria.
Before you criticize me on the fact that these
women need to live a
comfortable life by hanging out with only
comfortable dudes, read the topic
again! It is surely the same reason why I said
young struggling men
should forget about love and focus on their
lives!!! When you are
comfortable, you can have the resources to
sustain your relationship because
no matter how a woman ‘loves’ you, the ‘love’
must surely die if there’s no
finance to sustain it!
xx Why a woman should not dance in some overrated ego
January 06, 2018, 11:31:39 AM by naijatowns
I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.
After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.
There is no benefit in pride!

This a perfect example and advise for those dancing in some overrated ego. Share it with your friends.

January 06, 2018, 07:31:23 AM by naijatowns
1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.
2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
3. Issuing threats:
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."
4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?
5. Keeping malice:
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
6. Not helping with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.
My point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.
thumbup Marriage tips for couples in 2018
December 30, 2017, 01:27:58 PM by naijatowns
Marriage indeed is one of the biggest investments in human existence; just like every new beginning, it started as a seed which needed a lot of nurturing and preservations to ensure its steady growth and success. During the process, it is also predestined to experience several transformations which can be good or bad depending on the choices you make as individuals or as a couple. Lives will be confronted with setbacks and behind every smile are more than a thousand pains sometimes too deep to comprehend.

2017 has certainly left its own memories in your hearts nevertheless you must both try your best to remain optimistic no matter how insignificant the present may seem. Here are a few words of wisdom to kick-off your marital lives in the coming year.

Don’t give up

Marriage has the capacity to mend broken hearts and the tendency to prevent further heartbreaks. It also has the inclinations to change your views and perceptions of the past therefore cultivate a positive attitude and thankful hearts in every situation. Focus on your strengths but also embrace your weaknesses too as marriage gives you the freedom to become vulnerable with your spouse in exchange for care and protection.

Take single steps

One of the most famous Chinese proverbs says; a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; start taking small steps in the right directions if great big steps have made you stumble in the past. Each step you take will reveal a totally new you even though the journey may be challenging in the beginning but with sacrifice, commitment, self-motivation and a continuous passage of learning, you will both be working towards building a better and fulfilled marriage life together.

Hate is destructive

In the words of Marianne Williamson ‘We are not held back by the love we didn’t receive in the past, but by the love we are not extending in the present’. Do not bottle up animosity from a past relationship or with your spouse for a wrong committed, you will be destroying yourselves silently, even though you cannot alter the past,  do not allow hate and regrets to rub you of a greater future together in your marriage.

Forgiveness is divine

Stop dwelling on your mistakes and stop searching for answers you may never find; when you both make mistakes, do not dwell on them. Forgiveness is a powerful thing, even though it doesn’t change the past but it has the capacity to reform the future, always forgive because forgiveness is divine and it can make your troubled marriage whole again.

Life is too short

Arguments and Grudges are just a waste of time and a total deprivation of love and happiness in your marriage. When you merge the good and the bad together, you will both learn to appreciate the privilege you have both been given to live and love because life is just too short to live it in misery and regrets.


Even though you cannot take back the troubles of yesterday, but you can both start looking forward to a more rewarding life together in the • New Year when you both put love first coupled with the wisdom which is profitable to direct in every great marriage. Wish you all a Fruitful Year Ahead.
xx Why It's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.
December 20, 2017, 01:12:31 PM by abejoye

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

December 03, 2017, 09:37:46 AM by abejoye

A woman in Yola, Adamawa State took her husband's Phone and checked his Facebook activities; she saw romantic chats with women. She sat down and thought of a way to separate him from the women. She came up with a beautiful idea, without even the husband's knowledge. She came up with the following methods

1- She copied all his chats with one of the women.

2- She opened a new Facebook account with a Male name.

3- She sent a friend request to the husband, he accepted the request.

4 - She introduced herself to him. She said "I'm Abu Dar'daee by name, a Member of BOKO HARAM.  I saw all your chats with my wife. I want to warn you to stay away from her if you really want to remain alive. To clear any element of doubt, I have all the chats  with me and here they are,  you can see.

5- So, if you don't stop chatting with my wife, I'll slaughter you like Ram.
6- I know you. I know your name is Jamilu, your father's name is Mohammed, your mother's name Khadija,  you have 3 children.  Al'ameen, Zahara and Yusuf. Abdulrahman is your best friend and Usman is your neighbor. You are a Lecturer working at FCE.  You also go to work 9:30am with your friend Usman,  you follow Jambutu street and you spend time together. I'm warning you if you dare call,  text or chat with my wife again, I will slaughter you like a Ram as I said earlier".

The wife was close to him while he read the message. As he was reading it, he kept sniffing and repeating Innalillahi WA innaillaihirraji'un. She asked him what happened, he said nothing. He immediately deleted his Facebook and Whatsapp apps and every other social media app.

The following morning, he went and sold the phone in the market and bought an ordinary Nokia. He told his wife to always wake him when ever it's time for prayers.

The woman said since that day, her husband has been observing prayers regularly and spending more time with the family.

Isn't that better than settling the matter with a knife?
xx Am I still a virgin
December 02, 2017, 01:09:35 AM by Isaac Adeniran
A young woman sent me a message. She is about to get married. She had told her fiancé that she was a virgin. But the problem was that, she didn't know whether she was still a virgin.
When she was 13 years old, she was raped. A man grabbed her and forced himself on her. But someone came along and rescued her. The act only happened for 10 seconds.
So, she was afraid her fiancé might think she lied to him when  they finally have sex and she didn't show sign of a virgin.
So, she came to me distraught.
I asked her if she had seen her vagina before. Her answer was no. I told her to use a mirror and look at her vagina.
She later sent me a message:
"I just looked at my virgina now for the first time in my life with a mirror, I did not understand a thing and I can not see any opening where an object as big as a men penis will penetrate
To be frank I don't know the part of the virgina where the penis penetrate
So many things to learn...."
Then I sent her images to use in comparing her vagina. I told her not to worry, everything will be alright as long as I am involved.
I get a lot of messages like that one from virgins. Both male and female virgins. Men about to marry virgins and women about to marry virgins and virgin couples who are confused as hell.
And about to wed couples who have sexual issues and questions. or newly married couples who are grappling with sexual questions.
So, I have decided to gather these good people together and give them a special package: WhatsApp Virgo's Forum.
This welcomes those about to get married; singles seeking information; newly married; those who want to know.
This class will be interactive, with images videos etc. It will span for a week and includes short counseling from me for those with special problems. The fee is quite affordable (2000 naira).
For more info WhatsApp me @ 08033181698
You don't have to worry anymore!
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