Love, Relationship and marriage

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clip Court orders woman to repay former lover’s gifts
December 03, 2018, 05:56:43 AM by Isaac Adeniran
Court orders woman to repay former lover’s gifts worth £116,000

A UK court has ordered a Zimbabwean, Trish Garikayi, 37, to repay her former lover, Wisdom Penfold, at least £116,000, being the value of gifts and cash which she had received when they were in love with each other.

Judge Alexander Hill-Smith made the ruling after noting that Garikayi had “misappropriated” her partner’s cash which had been entrusted to her when her then-boyfriend Penfold, was blinded by love.

Penfold, 58, fell in love with Garikayi and was so besotted with her that he pampered her with a Porsche 911 and a £100,000 diamond bracelet among other gifts.

Court orders woman to repay former lover’s gifts
clip 3 Financial red flags that should not beoverlooked in a relationship
December 01, 2018, 08:20:56 PM by Isaac Adeniran
3 Financial red flags that should not beoverlooked in a relationship

Being in a relationship with that special one with everything you have wished for is the pure bliss everyone would like to experience. 

While it’s easy to overlook superficial issues, but when it comes to financial red flags there are definitely some deal breakers.

The truth remains that no one is perfect with money, neither is anyone born to be good or bad with money and it’s totally okay to have disagreements when it comes to our finances. But if we’re serious about taking our relationship to the next level that is marriage, then we really need to make the money talk a priority.

Some of the red flags you should look out for are:

clip For Better Sex, 8 Tips No Couple Should Go Without
November 17, 2018, 10:29:24 PM by Isaac Adeniran
For Better Sex, 8 Tips No Couple Should Go Without

Push the reset button on your sex life

If you’re coupled and stuck in a sexual rut, you’re not alone. While dry spells are a normal part of any relationship, it’s still no consolation for couples experiencing one. “Familiarity is the death of the sex drive,” Allison Moon author of “Girl Sex 101” told Healthline. “The more we get used to someone, the less exciting sex becomes.”

Here are some quick tips — some of which I’ve tried — to help reignite passion if your sex life is lacking.

1. Liberate your body’s energy in a new way

“Go dancing or try yoga,” says Moon. “Once you affirm your connection with your own body, you can affirm your connection with your partner’s body.” One survey found that coupled but sexually inactive people were prone to feelings of sadness and felt unattractive. Reclaim your sexual power by finding new ways to move and get comfortable in your body.

2. Reignite your dopamine with a fresh experience

“Doing something new creates a sense of bonding and intimacy. Think outside of the box and do an activity that might scare you or excite you, like an amusement park ride or an escape room,” advises Sunny Megatron, sex educator and co-host of the American Sex Podcast. “You will create dopamine and duplicate the same feelings you had in the honeymoon phase of your relationship.”

Experts say dopamine and other chemicals in the brain are directly linked to physical attraction and romantic passion, which is why bonding over a new activity together could help spark arousal.

November 17, 2018, 01:46:04 PM by Isaac Adeniran
Written by Otulana Funso

My husband walked into the house looking dull....No hug, no kiss, no hello!
"He must have had a very rough day" I thought to myself
"Afterall, Abuja to Ijebu-Ode is a very long journey"
He went straight to His room, without uttering a word. (Dennis and I had separate rooms.) Though, we were free to sleep together in any of our rooms, I allowed him to rest and slept in my personal room instead.
By sunrise, I had prepared his favourite meal and set the table. Dennis came out of his room, fully dressed ready to hit the road.
"Hi Honey, hope you had a restful night?" I tried to engage him...He just nodded grudgingly, but did not say a word.
"Oh! How I miss his soft touch and his romantic style of greeting...the way he calls my name, kiss my face, and sometimes he gently lifts me off the ground"
Whistling, he simply carried his briefcase, picked his car keys and zoomed off without even tasting my food or saying goodbye. I was perturbed and dumbfounded. "What is wrong with this man?.... In our 8 years of marriage, I have never seen him like this. This is so strange!"
I managed to put myself together, as my son was already late for school. I served junior his breakfast and we set out for school.
On getting to school, I realised that I had forgotten the school's bank teller at home. It was a new term and we needed to pay school fees. After sending the boy to his class, I went straight to the Admin block to pick up another teller, so as to pay my ward's tuition.
"Good morning, madam Bridget, how may I help you ?"
"Good morning Mr Nelson.. Pls I need another bank teller so I can pay my son's tuition. I left the previous teller at home."
"But madam, didn't your husband tell you?"
"My who?...My husband??... tell me what??"
"Madam, your husband was here yesterday around noon, he requested for a bank teller and made instant payment by transfer to our bank. He settled all your child's bills.
"Whatt!!!....You mean my husband was here yesterday?"
"Yes madam, he even spoke to the HM, you can confirm from her."
"Mister Nelson, Are you okay at all? Do you know what you are saying?
"Yes Madam...Wait, let me quickly get you the details"
"Mister Nelson, you must be out of your mind! Why did you give him the teller, without directing him to me? Don't you know that I am the one responsible for making payments? Why didn't you call me to notify me first? You must be very stupid to commit such a blunder"
Gosh! I was very furious, I wanted to literarily tear him apart. I knew that His ignorance & negligence was going to cost me. Only that I didn't know that it would cost me everything.
By this time, I had created a big scene in the school. Teachers/staff ran towards us from every direction. The shouts of "madam sorry", "take it easy ma" filled the air.
I wanted to quickly do a damage control...I pulled away from the crowd, opened my bag, pulled out my phone to call my husband but his iPhone was switched.
While I was standing there, thinking of the next step to take, A call came was My husband's Travel Agent. He called to inform me that my husband had cancelled our flight and our travel plans for vacation (a seven nation tour around Europe). My husband has also asked that my passport be withheld until further notice. (He gave me the information in confidence)
Just when I was lamenting about my shattered dream of a sweet vacation with my husband....
My bank Account officer's call came through, She informed me that my husband had pulled out from a major international business deal. The deal was at the final stage and my husband had earlier promised me that he would fund the project 100%. (I wanted to just enter the ground.)
Not quite five minutes after, My husband's car dealer also called to inform me that my dream car would no longer be delivered as planned.
OMG! The bad news were just too much for me. Suddenly, My bones grew weak, my voice was gone, and my throat was very dry. (I thought I was having partial stroke)
I left the school premises feeling totally exposed /naked, dejected and heart broken. I sat down in the car and wept bitterly.
I didn't realise that The little foxes can really mess up the big vines. My secret sins have finally caught up with me.
....What little foxes? What secret sins? Find out in Part 2.
Continued in part 2. (Find below)

clip During sex with lover, 65 years man dies
November 11, 2018, 02:48:14 PM by Isaac Adeniran
 [sixe=5]During sex with lover, 65 years man dies[/size]

A man said to be about 65 years has been reported dead while having sex at a hotel in Awka, Anambra State.

The man, identified as Mr Obi Nwoda, checked into the hotel with a lady on Saturday.

According to the management of the hotel, the woman was leaving the hotel alone and when she was forced to go back to the room where the man, Obi Nwuda, was seen lying unconscious.

xx Love Versus Nature
November 11, 2018, 03:22:25 AM by Wale Adeleke
Love Versus Nature

In discussing the issue of live and nature ways of doings its things, I don't mean that there is no love .
 When I talk of love, it embraces infatuation, seduction, and the so calĺed fake and genuine love. And any othe attraction between man and woman that is not based on what I called genuine caring.

By nature I mean those activities that are controlled by hormones and emotion.

Nature has one purpose for man and that is continue procreation and is not part of the agenda of nnature for man to flourish. Th a is writhing the power of man. if you like you get pregnant every year with any means of caring for children is not the consent of nature.

When man and woman at a tender age are claiming that they are in love may just be respond to nature through the secretion of hormone. And that is the main reason why such so called love may not last especially after a painful experience like pregnancy and termination of pregnancy or betrayal from any of the partners.

The hormones that control emotion of attraction that we interprete as love is so powerful that once you ignite their secretions,  the effect is beyond the control of man or woman.

So when next time you think u are in love find out if you are not under the control of nature hormones of attraction.

That is the man reason when the secretions of these hormones have reduced, you hardly see the type of love you observe at teenagers and early 20s among adults both male and female.

Unfortunately there is no one to tell our young ones that your feeling is due to hormonal secretions which is being controlled by nature for procreation purposes.
To be continue

clip Men who exercise regularly last longer in bed
November 09, 2018, 11:12:17 PM by omonaija
Men who exercise regularly last longer in bed

*Scientists explain how physical activity boosts sexual performance By Sola Ogundipe Men who exercise regularly can last twice as long in the bedroom, according to a study. Exercise is key to performance…. Those who jogged, cycled or lifted weights for 40 minutes each day lasted around five minutes 30 seconds, on average. In comparison, men who walk for less than 30 minutes a week last an average of three minutes, with one ejaculating in just 20 seconds. The Mailonline reported  how Turkish researchers found premature ejaculation was more frequent in those with a sedentary lifestyle. ‘It can be assumed that regular physical activity may be effectual in gaining a sexual life of higher quality,’ the researchers, led by Dr Yildiray Yildiz, wrote.

September 07, 2018, 12:57:53 PM by Isaac Adeniran

  Don’t shout at your
       wife when you are
       talking. It really
       hurts her.
       Proverbs 15:1

  Do not speak evil
       of her to anyone.
       Your wife will become
       who you call her.
      Gen. 2:19

  Do not share her love
      or affection with another
      It is called Adultery.
      Matt. 5:28

  Never compare your
       wife to another woman.
       If the other woman was
       good for you, God would
       have given her to you.
      2 Cor. 10:12

  Be gentle and
       accommodating. She
       has sacrificed so much
       to be with you.
       It hurts her deeply
       when you are hash
       and irritating.
       Be tender.
       Eph. 4:2

  Hide nothing from her.
       You are now one and
       she’s your helpmate.
       Let there be no secret
       you are keeping
       from her.
       Gen. 2:25

  Do not make negative
       comment about her
       body. She risked her
       life and beauty to carry
       your babies. She is a
       living soul not just
       flesh and blood.
       Proverbs 18:22

  Do not let her body
       determine her worth.
       Cherish and appreciate
       her even till old age.
       Eph. 5:29

  Never shout at her
       in the public and in
       private. If you have
       an issue to sort with
       her, do it in the privacy
       of your room.
       Matt. 1:19

  Thank and appreciate
       her for taking good
       care of you, the kids
       and the house. It is
       a great sacrifice she
       is making.
       1 Thesso. 5:18

  All women cannot
       cook the same way;
       appreciate your
       wife’s food.
       It is not easy to cook
       three meals a day,
       365 days a year
       for several years.
       Pro. 31:14

  Never place your
       siblings before her.
       She is your wife.
       She is one with you.
       She must come
       before your family.
       Gen. 2:24

  Invest seriously in
       her spiritual growth.
       Buy books, tapes and
       any material that will
       edify her & strengthen
       her walk with God.
       That’s the best thing
       you can do for her.
       Eph. 5:26

  Spend time with her
       to do Bible study
       and pray.
       James 5:16

  Make time to play
       with her and enjoy
       her company.
       Remember when you
       are dead, she’s gonna
       be by your grave but
       your friends may be
       too busy to attend
       your funeral.
       Ecc. 9:9

  Never use money
       to manipulate or
       control her. All your
       money belongs to
       her. She is a joint heir
       with you of the
       grace of God.
       1 Pet. 3:7

  Do not expose her
       weakness. You will be
       exposing yourself too.
       Be a shield around her.
       Eph. 5:30

  Honour her parents
       and be kind to her
       SOS. 8:2

  Never cease to tell
       her how much you
       love her all the days
       of her life. Women
       are never tired of
       hearing that.
       Eph. 5:25

  Grow to be like Jesus.
       That’s the only way
       you can be a good
       and godly husband.
      Rom. 8:29

              PASS IT ON

clip Why Men Lying For Love
August 23, 2018, 01:58:27 PM by Isaac Adeniran
Why Men Lying For Love

A very beautiful woman enters the shop of an Alhaji and asked him if the shop belongs to him...

Alhaji was seduced by the beauty of the woman and answered:

"Yes of course, it's my shop! And this is the smallest! I have 3 others! I also have 5 cars and 10 massive houses. And I have N150,000,000 in my account. In addition, I am free and I can get married again"...

The beautiful woman said:

"I'm delighted! My name is Fatima Jallo, Tax Officer" from Inland Revenue Service. I am here for Tax assessment.

Alhaji replied: "I'm the biggest liar in the neighborhood, you can ask all my friends and neighbours. Wallahi Tallahi, I am a very big liar!!!" Barika de Salah ..
clip Does love alone guarantee the success of a relationship, if not what? Find out
August 23, 2018, 03:28:41 AM by omonaija

I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.
Relationships cannot be readymade.

 Does love alone guarantee the success of a relationship, if not what? Find out
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